Katrina

This is a tough one. No doubt you have all read about the distruction that has taken place in my home town. I'm sort of glad I don't have any extra pictures on this one. Most importantly, my family is safe and out of New Orleans. My parents are in Savannah, GA staying with my father's sister and their mother. My Uncle Charlie and Aunt Jill are in Baton Rouge with their kids and Charlie's mother and are staying with friends there. Luckily, our homes were spared by the hurricane and it does not appear that there was any flooding in our neighborhoods.
This event has created some unimaginable living environments for my family. While there is a possibility and likelihood of them returning to New Orleans later this year, they have effectively started from scratch in Savannah. My dad is looking for a new job, and they have only the clothes that they brought with them. Luckily, they have a place to stay and my mother can continue to do her job remotely. Can you imagine your entire life being pulled out from under you? Thankfully, they have family to support them, good educations and good work experience. My cousins are attending public schools in Baton Rouge and my uncle is applying for jobs there. What do you do about car payments? house payments? how do you get $ for food or clothes? It's just a crazy situation.
Beyond just the living environment, the political and social environment in New Orleans has disgusted me. Since I left New Orleans 10 years ago, I have never planned on moving back. I have never been able to put my finger on why, but the social and political response to an event like this definitely highlights some of the major issues I have with the city. Socially speaking, the looting, and the shootings have made me so angry. For me, I can't think of much worse than taking advantage of other people's dire situations. I just know that there were tons of people who couldn't wait for the city to be evacuated so they could start the looting. Who are these people and how did they get this way? I have no sympathy for them and I hope they are all captured and dealt with severely. There is a large population in New Orleans that is unmotivated, uneducated and uninterested in contributing to the improvement of their community, and I hate that about the people there.
Then you get into the politics. I have known since I was a young boy that New Orleans is a corrupt city. It's run by politicians who are unqualified and people who are unmotivated to do anything. Sadly, this has no resulted in the loss of many people's lives. I can't get out of my mind the video clip I saw of new orleans police, in uniform, looting at Walmart.
Maybe this will give New Orleans a chance to rebuild from scratch. I certainly hope so because the good parts about that city are amazing. The culture, the music, the art and the food are unbeatable in this world. It's too bad they have been surrounded by the mess of people who inhabit most of the city.
The only thing I can be thankful for here is my health, my education and my family. My parents have emphasized all of these as critical parts of my upbringing and they are the most critical for surviving and even thriving in such difficult situations as these. And beyond that, for the ethics and morals I have learned from them. To help others, to be compassionate and to treat people well. I feel strongly that you have to live your life as an example for others if you want them to change and I am proud of my parents for doing that.
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JD - thanks for posting and letting us know your family is safe. Please give your Mom and Dad a big hug for me and let them know they are in my thoughts. If they want to come to California, they can stay with me...anytime. This whole disaster is just beyond anything that any of us could have imagined, and we will see the fallout for years to come. Many people are indulging in fond memories of Mardi Gras, JazzFests, and Hurricanes, myself included. I was scheduled to go to a conference in New Orleans in October, and I was so looking forward to Bourbon Street, some good gumbo, and good times. Unfortunately, most tourists did not see or did not choose to see the poverty of the Ninth Ward. Like you, I have no patience for the people who were looting televisions or tennis shoes, who raped and robbed defenseless and innocent people - there's no excuse for it. Unlike you, I can understand how years of poverty, living conditions, and lack of education can cause people to lose hope, and I can understand how despair can cause people to act in a way that you and I find reprehensible. I can distinguish between "looting" for televisions and "looting" to get food and drink for survival. What do you do when you have been waiting for help and help never comes? What do you do when you can hear and see the helicopters which would take you to freedom, and they keep going? You may be interested to know that Charmaine Neville (sister of the Neville Brothers...I know you have danced to their music at the JazzFest) gave an interview that she was on a rooftop with people who were shooting "at" helicopters...when we heard the media reports, we shook our heads and said, "That makes no sense. Why would anyone do that? Why would you shoot the people who were trying to rescue you?" Well, the rest of the story, which you didn't hear on the 10 o'clock news, is that it doesn't make sense. Charmaine says they weren't shooting "at" helicopters; they had been ignored for so long by helicopters flying over, with no food and no water, that they shot at the helicopters to try and get their attention, thinking that if the helicopters couldn't see them, maybe they could hear them. http://www.wafb.com/Global/SearchResults.asp?qu=charmaine+neville&x=14&y=13. Hopefully this link works to see the 6 minute video that was broadcast on WAFB...if the link doesn't work (you did your best to help me with technology!!!-oh well!), go to wafb.com and search on Chairmaine Neville. Your family is now experiencing the reality of some of the lower Ninth Ward residents everyday existence...no cars, no homes, no $$ for food or clothes, every single day of their lives. Some of those folks stayed because they had no way to get out and no place to go. "Home is where, when you have to go back, they have to take you in." Where do you go if you are "homeless?" I don't wish what the former residents of NO are going through on anyone, but I do think it is enlightening for many to "trade places" and see what the underpriviliged in our society live with...everyday. How *do* you come back from nothing? Whether that nothing comes courtesy of a hurricane or the circumstances of your birth, you still got nothing. Jason, I know you to be a kind and caring person, and I would encourage you to exercise some of the compassion and desire to help others that you were raised with, before you judge all the people of your former home town without distinction. I'm not excusing corruption, theft, laziness...I am saying, don't judge. The cliche is tired but true: Walk a mile in their shoes.
2:26 PM
J, I hear you. And the reason I struggle is that I want to have compassion for these people. And for many of them, I do. For the ones who stayed around to take advantage of others, I don't. When a kind man stops and waits to offer help to others and then the others pull a gun on him and his family, it's tough...but I don't judge. Someone else will judge them. I don't know what it's like to be in their shoes and i may never know. I hope my comments aren't too general. There is an obvious distinction between the people who are helpless and the ones who choose to stay for other reasons. My ire is directed at the latter. My compassion to the former.
I generally discredit most of the media reports and I'm not surprised at the story you sent. I'm embarrassed by what is left out of news reports and i'm also embarrassed by the city's lack of preparedness for and ability to respond to an event like this. I understand looting when you need food and clothes to survive. I don't understand New Orleans PD participating in the looting.
Your thoughts, insight and wisdom are always welcome. You know I love you for who you are.
7:48 PM
"wisdom and insight" - Jason, sorry - I got nothing. How to explain someone thinking it's a good idea to steal a television, when their job is to protect and serve? I haven't been down low enough to understand the thought process that goes into that kind action. I have been down low enough to know that there's not that much difference between them and me. Except for the choice made at the fork in the road that turned out to be the right choice, an accident, "the grace of God" - that could be any of us, especially me. I can't explain why people looted after the fall of Baghdad, I can't even explain why people loot after their football team wins. I can't explain it, I do condemn it, but I also know in my heart that people are essentially good. What I do know for sure is that the real looting is about to begin. When the contracts are handed out for the rebuilding of your city, it's going to make those tv sets look like a church school giveaway. And don't be embarrassed about the lack of preparedness, at all levels, not just local. Their plan would have worked if the levees hadn't broken - if only. You think we're ready in SF for the worst case scenario? We got lucky in '89 when only part of the Bay Bridge fell. And the BART tube didn't sustain any damage. We've got those same models showing the destruction if worst case happens, including flooding in the Sacramento Valley, which has those same levees, which are about as old, and which would break in a major earthquake. And we project what it would cost to fix, and oh look, Survivor is on and did I pay the dentist bill and I've gotta remember to get my hair cut. Nobody ever prepares for worst case.
And I love you more - not only for who you are, but the man you are becoming. Cheesy, but true!
9:59 AM
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